Why We Have It
 

One of the reasons it's so hard for any of us to ever get help with having this problem is so few understand what it is we're dealing with when it comes to us having this problem and what's happened to us because of having it. It's a complicated problem to have and it's tricky to solve. There are several underlying reasons why all of us have it and they are what are causing all of us to be the way we are and they are hidden from everyone even to those of us who have this problem. This is why any attempt at solving this problem that doesn't address the reasons why we have it fails. It is because of these reasons that all of us have this problem, and they are also responsible for the way that all of us have been reacting to having it. It is from this simple belief that recovery was born. The problem is not outside us, it comes from within us, and that any solution that we may have for our problem has to address this. It all has to do with what all of us have been believing that has been causing all of us to have this problem and that needs to be changed. Any other approach that doesn't recognize this about us and tries to solve our problem for us in any other way doesn't work. We can fix all things we want to on the outside, but unless we're willing to fix what's wrong with us on the inside, nothing is going to change, and nothing is going to ever happen for us. Until we do this none of us are going to be able to recover from having this problem.