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Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-30-2014, 02:20 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo So many times we don't know that we have the... So many times we don't know that we have the power to do for ourselves. We stay in abusive situation thinking we have no other options. I know I did, waiting for a better time, and it never came. ...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-29-2014, 01:54 PM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Like all things, I needed a change in my... Like all things, I needed a change in my attitude. Like a spoonful of sugar, it makes everything go down much better. Yet when my mind, starts thinking more, it is a danger sign. I need to have my...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-28-2014, 05:35 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo http://www.animated-gifs.eu/alphabet-cats-11/0020.... http://www.animated-gifs.eu/alphabet-cats-11/0020.gifhttp://www.animated-gifs.eu/alphabet-cats-11/0008.gifhttp://www.animated-gifs.eu/alphabet-cats-11/0001.gifhttp://www.animated-gifs.eu/alphabet-cats...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-28-2014, 05:13 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Don't you just love it. As a speaker said... Don't you just love it. As a speaker said yesterday, "It doesn't matter what words make up the prayer, just say them." As I have heard in recovery, the best prayer is: ...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-27-2014, 01:17 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo I often call it going through transition. I was... I often call it going through transition. I was going to buy a butterfly for $5. and I wanted to bring it home, but it was for a tree on the window in the front on front of the store. I told myself...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-26-2014, 08:31 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This was difficult for me, boiled down to the... This was difficult for me, boiled down to the fact that I didn't think to ask and couldn't envision it.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-24-2014, 02:43 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This brought a new awareness. I was aware that... This brought a new awareness. I was aware that when I became needy, I got greedy. But that was my addictive side, and with the healing of the program, I don't have to act that way any more. I can...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-23-2014, 02:25 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This was a biggy and something I addressed early... This was a biggy and something I addressed early in recovery. It was patience and tolerance. I learned that if you asked for patience, you got a lot of things to tolerate to practice your patience...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-22-2014, 05:29 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo A good reading to read, and read again. A good reading to read, and read again.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-21-2014, 01:20 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Like this, reminds me of the other day when a guy... Like this, reminds me of the other day when a guy went rushing by me the other day and we met at the red light, and we both crossed at the green light. When I had about a year sober, a woman who...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-20-2014, 04:05 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Had always been this way, and then as my disease... Had always been this way, and then as my disease progress, I became very introverted. Those who didn't know me when I came in, couldn't believe that I had been that way. It wasn't the same way as...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-19-2014, 02:02 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Another good topic! I learned that I didn't need... Another good topic! I learned that I didn't need to apologize for my existence. That is how I felt for most of my life. Also as it says here, I had to learn what was mine and what was not mine,...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-18-2014, 06:39 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Good stuff! As I like to say, life is good if I... Good stuff! As I like to say, life is good if I stay out of the way and lelt it happen. How often we sabotage ourselves. We are not use to good things in our life, and don't feel comfortable there...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-17-2014, 04:08 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo I learned to recognize old relationship... I learned to recognize old relationship behaviours when they came up and set a boundary. Most times they were not to well received, and once more than once was set up, they generally left, it wasn't...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-16-2014, 05:37 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Found that revenge just brought me down to the... Found that revenge just brought me down to the level of the other person and found I didn't want to go there.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-15-2014, 10:12 PM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This has been my prayer the last few days. I... This has been my prayer the last few days. I didn't realize I hadn't posted this reading today. That is a good sign that things aren't right.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-14-2014, 04:27 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This brought a smile to my face, because in the... This brought a smile to my face, because in the past, if it was good for me, I would choose the opposite. One of my phrases, which I don't say so often any more is, "Since when did I ever do what...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-13-2014, 01:29 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Awesome, a while since I thought of this. I... Awesome, a while since I thought of this. I mean, really thought of it. I often think of it as transition. Sometimes we get caught up in busy, worry, and caring for others, that we don't allow for...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-12-2014, 10:14 PM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Haven't been very patient lately. With the... Haven't been very patient lately. With the headaches, I have been forgetting my vitamins and haven't been very organized and haven't taken them regularly, so have to find a way to get a routine,...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-11-2014, 05:24 PM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Describes my day today, did call my sponsor, did... Describes my day today, did call my sponsor, did say a few prayers along with a few silent cuss words, but I did confront people on their actions and called them on their lack of communication and...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-10-2014, 02:36 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo For so many years, I looked outside of myself for... For so many years, I looked outside of myself for validation and approval. It was such a gift to know that approval from myself was enough.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-09-2014, 09:26 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo A good one, as they say, "Hindsight is a great... A good one, as they say, "Hindsight is a great teacher." How many times I have said to myself, "Oh that is what they meant?" The light bulb may not go off in today, but on a dull day, it just might...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-08-2014, 03:58 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This was so true, I learned to stuff and bury my... This was so true, I learned to stuff and bury my pain from such an early age, that so much was already buried by the time I reached my 30s, after that it was old hat. When I came to recovery, pain...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-07-2014, 02:07 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo A good one, I didn't know I didn't know I wasn't... A good one, I didn't know I didn't know I wasn't responsible. My mother told me I was. I wrote not to long ago that she told me it was always my fault if something went wrong. Had a lot of false...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-06-2014, 03:11 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo A good reminder that there is negativity, and it... A good reminder that there is negativity, and it is often a reality, but it can be changed. The best way to do so is to bring in the positive. We don't have to stay in it, or we can make a choice...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-05-2014, 02:34 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo This has been a long time favourite. Not... This has been a long time favourite. Not something to be done morning and/or night, but all day long. The Steps are applicable to all areas of my life. It helps me to trust the process and let...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-04-2014, 10:55 PM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo As I posted in my check in and in my gratitude... As I posted in my check in and in my gratitude list, I prayed and asked for a f2f connection and asked that I be given what I needed. I felt really needy the last few days. I got what I needed and...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-04-2014, 10:45 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo Like this went to do the reading because I just... Like this went to do the reading because I just woke up, have to go for blood work and go to a doctor's appointment. The mind was blank and the words were not there, and I thought "Whoops," and said...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-03-2014, 01:47 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo As the saying goes, "Actions speak louder than... As the saying goes, "Actions speak louder than words." Don't just tell me, show me. Take the words off the paper and apply them to your life. So you can say them by wrote, but can you live them. ...

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-02-2014, 02:13 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo It has been a struggle for me. It has been a struggle for me.

Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 09-01-2014, 01:35 AM

Replies: 30 LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 Views: 4,985 Posted By MajestyJo LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - SEPTEMBER 2014 If I am ever in doubt about being in doubt about being a codependent, I just have to look at my codependency and my lack of patience. It is especially true when I hear myself saying, "You are not...

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