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Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-31-2014, 01:19 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
For me, denial was saying "I don't know," when...

For me, denial was saying "I don't know," when deep down I did. As Melody Beattie says, "Putting on the blanket of denial in order to cope," because we feel we are not ready and able to deal with...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-30-2014, 01:22 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
A good one, I was told to not look at far I had...

A good one, I was told to not look at far I had to go but to look at how far I had come. We have a disease of perception. When we don't ask for the healing of our perception, we can beat ourselves...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-29-2014, 01:13 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Not sure what to think tonight, my son said "Take...

Not sure what to think tonight, my son said "Take a steak out for dinner." He was a no show and I need help with a lot of things that just didn't get done, and things I did that I probably shouldn't...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-28-2014, 06:42 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
She says it so much better than I do. I was that...

She says it so much better than I do. I was that victim, just call my name and I was there.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-27-2014, 01:34 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Didn't procrastinate, phoned to cancel...

Didn't procrastinate, phoned to cancel appointment at 6:30 a.m., only to get a call they missed me at 11 a.m.

Laundry will be put off for another day :(
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-26-2014, 12:26 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Posted on this yesterday, amends isn't saying...

Posted on this yesterday, amends isn't saying "I'm sorry!" it is about taking a look at your life, and looking at what you need to change in order to not continue acting out in your disease.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-25-2014, 01:26 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
It took time and prayer to become willing to make...

It took time and prayer to become willing to make an amend to my ex-boss, I knew I had a part in it, but he was always the bigger sinner (offender), in my eyes. It was about what he did to me, and...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-24-2014, 05:19 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
There is so much fear around Step Eight because...

There is so much fear around Step Eight because they are thinking Step Nine and having to make the amend.

It takes a lot of self-honesty to do a complete Step 8. We often don't realize how much...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-23-2014, 01:59 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
This is a little of what I have been sharing and...

This is a little of what I have been sharing and looking at new ways to practice self care. I was told that you give to others, you give to yourself.

My friend and I were sharing about this, how...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-22-2014, 08:31 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
A good one and one that took me a long time to...

A good one and one that took me a long time to learn. Everything was followed with a "Yeah but...."

Those old tapes are killers. I even found God to be an old tape, I had to go on a Spiritual...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-21-2014, 06:52 PM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
This is what I have to do with my relationship...

This is what I have to do with my relationship with my son. I love him but sure don't love or like his actions. I can't change him, all I can do is pray for him.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-20-2014, 09:46 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
There was no communication in my marriages unless...

There was no communication in my marriages unless it was to tell me to shut up, my opinion didn't matter or wasn't asked for.

You can't communicate and have a relationship if you are talking to a...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-19-2014, 04:23 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
It was important for me to remember I was acting...

It was important for me to remember I was acting out in my dis-ease. Many times I was embarrassed for others, most times because I was fearful of them bringing shame to me and my life.

I have...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-18-2014, 02:47 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
As the slogan says, "This too shall pass." That...

As the slogan says, "This too shall pass." That means the good and not so good, so enjoy the moment when it is here, it may not pass again. If it does come back, it may be in a different format or...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-17-2014, 02:16 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Firmly a thought is a prayer. Be careful what...

Firmly a thought is a prayer. Be careful what you give out, it will come back to you. Be careful for what you ask for, it may be returned in kind.

It is so true, "This to shall pass," the good...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-17-2014, 02:16 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Firmly a thought is a prayer. Be careful what...

Firmly a thought is a prayer. Be careful what you give out, it will come back to you. Be careful for what you ask for, it may be returned in kind.

It is so true, "This to shall pass," the good...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-16-2014, 01:37 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Just knew one of the reading would speak to me...

Just knew one of the reading would speak to me and tell me to get honest. I bought brownies today. I recognize it as a fear thing. Every Friday night on pay day, my son goes out and spends mega...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-15-2014, 03:24 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Knew when I saw the title, that I was going to...

Knew when I saw the title, that I was going to like it and needed to read it.

When I came into recovery, I knew I had something, wasn't sure it was a feeling, and I sure didn't know what to call...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-14-2014, 05:43 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Didn't know I had the Power. I didn't know how...

Didn't know I had the Power. I didn't know how to get it. I had to identify those hooks and learn how to remove them. It all lead to building a relationship with my Higher Power.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-13-2014, 01:37 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
A good friend is important, I have a few I don't...

A good friend is important, I have a few I don't see very often, but when we do meet up, we just continue on where we left off.

I was told to be my own best friend. If I couldn't be friendly with...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-12-2014, 04:57 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
I like the idea and try to be direct. Sometimes,...

I like the idea and try to be direct. Sometimes, I find that even a word will trigger me, and although it may not have the initial meaning and message they are portraying, but it is what I need for...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-12-2014, 04:57 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
It is one day at a time, it isn't always about...

It is one day at a time, it isn't always about learning new, sometimes it is reinforcing the new that you have learned along the way. Sometimes we get a new perception, and what was is no more. ...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-11-2014, 02:27 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Wouldn't be alive if it were not for these...

Wouldn't be alive if it were not for these teachings. Healng is one day at a time. It also takes a lot of acceptance. I suffer from Chronic Pain, because of Fibromyalgia, Diabetes, and five types...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-10-2014, 01:15 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
As I posted earlier, perfectionism is part of our...

As I posted earlier, perfectionism is part of our dis-ease.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-09-2014, 01:28 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
A spiritual adviser told me to ask for what I...

A spiritual adviser told me to ask for what I need and take away what I don't need.

Ask and it shall be given onto you. As my meditations said one time, "Give thanks, it is already on the way."
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-08-2014, 01:50 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Saying yes is good unless it is something I...

Saying yes is good unless it is something I should say "No" too, like today when I overindulged with brownies.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-07-2014, 09:51 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
What part of NO do you not understand by Lorrie...

What part of NO do you not understand by Lorrie Morgan.

http://www.cowboylyrics.com/lyrics/morgan-lorrie/what-part-of-no-3649.html
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-06-2014, 01:32 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
Had to recognize that there was a spiritual...

Had to recognize that there was a spiritual solution. Old ways didn't work, they got me to the doors of recovery, so it was looking at life from a new perspective

Sometimes we have issues and it...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-05-2014, 01:27 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
They say that money is the root of all evil. ...

They say that money is the root of all evil. They say that money makes things just that little bit better and tolerable.

I have found that no matter how much you have, you spend it. Most times...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-04-2014, 02:16 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
This was something hard for me to do. I had to...

This was something hard for me to do. I had to give myself permission.
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-03-2014, 01:22 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
This is a good one. I found that I was...

This is a good one. I found that I was projecting the 'sins' of past relationships onto the present one. When I was using, I didn't do proper grieving and processing before I got into the next...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-02-2014, 01:28 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
She says it so well, I hesitate to add my...

She says it so well, I hesitate to add my thoughts.

I was told that the in between space, is a place of just being, often marking time. Waiting for the door to close on the last lesson, issues,...
Forum: Family and Friends of Alcoholics and Addicts 08-01-2014, 02:35 AM
Replies: 33
Views: 5,048
Posted By MajestyJo
LANGUAGE OF LETTING GO - AUGUST 2014

My favourite recovery word and phrase, "If you have recovery show it." Gratitude is an action word.
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