Thanks for sharing, it took me a long time to get that trust from my family. I had used and abused myself for 30 years before I found recovery, and it took a long time in recovery, to learn to stop the old behaviors and habits.
I had to learn to walk my talk. There were times when my son would say, "Mom, you need to go to a meeting." He was aware of the fact that I always felt better after going to a meeting.