Wallst, also praying for her and you. Things happen in life and sometimes the best thing is to let go. I believe in God, so I surrender what I cannot do to Him, who CAN do all things.
It does hurt. It is uncomfortable, but we CAN stand it, we CAN survive it. We will learn through it and if we allow it, we can become stronger people of better character.
Yes you love her, but she has to heal. You need to go on with your life. You need to heal as well. I agree with Jo that Al-Anon would be a great place. I have also been helped a lot lately by SMART Recovery, which you can also find online, and they also have a family and friends support section. You could also seek out professional or pastoral counseling.
I am glad you have reached out here. You are not alone and there are people willing to help if you continue to seek them out.
His peace.
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