A is for Analyze, don't Criticize. Don't try to figure it out, accept it for what it is. There are suggestions, but there are also some darn well betters, or you will find your back where you came from.
Look at where you are at, not at the other person(s). Don't compare, identify and you will find yourself with a new awareness and you will be able to admit that you too qualify for this program.
