O is for Obvious. It was obvious that all those other people had a problem, I was just fine!
F.I.N.E. (Frustrated, Insecure, Neurotic, and Emotional) It was obvious that if they just did what I told them to do, they would be just F.I.N.E. too.
What wasn't obvious was my own defects of character and addictions. I was so busy pointing my finger at others, that I couldn't see the reflection coming back at me.