Thanks for sharing, I stayed sick for a long time because I played the blame game for a long time. It was my dad's fault and my ex-husband(s) fault, not mine. Each relationship I got into after my marriages, carried the sins of my past, because I carried them with me because I never dealt with them, because it was always about them and never about me. It was always about the drink and never about the person. Even my son, who is in active addiction told me, "You never look at me behind my addiction mom." All you see is my disease! That was a big awakening for me, because I had to look at my own disease.
The 12 Steps are applicable to all areas of my life. There is a lot of material on the site, if you have any questions, please don't hesitate to ask or send me a private message.
