This is an old post, but I am sure glad I found it. What do you do if you did nothing to get in the middle, but someone accused (scapegoated) you, because you wrote a short reply to his wife's email. The alcoholic says "all communications go through me." (and I will decide what to tell my wife.) She continues to write and send pictures of our family. I just do not answer now, not wanting to be blamed for any problems that occur in the future. Thank you for your post.
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