Why oh why me! Why shouldn't it happen to you? Are you exempt? Perhaps you are missing out on the message.
As I posted earlier, "If it is on my plate, I must have ordered it." It might have been indirectly, but as they say, "We are where we are in today as a result of decisions made. How often did we ask ourselves "Why?" Couldn't figure out "Why" when in truth it was our disease speaking for us.
How many times did you want to take words back or left unspoken. Me, me, me! As I use to say to my ex-husband, you took one foot out to put the other one in.