Welcome Randy, congratulations on 10 months. You have many months ahead of you if you stay clean and sober. I once heard, if your wife goes to Al-Anon, that there is your program, her program, and our program. It makes for a strong foundation. Al-Anon isn't about talking about you, it is about her looking at her.
When you get to Step 12, you start again at Step One, because you have more awareness and understanding, that is how you grow and heal.
