Links

Join

Forums

Find Help

Recovery Readings

Spiritual Meditations

Chat

Contact


Go Back   Bluidkiti's Alcohol and Drug Addictions Recovery Help/Support Forums > Alcohol, Drugs and Other Addictions Recovery > Alcohol, Drugs and Other Addictions Recovery

Share This Forum!  
 
        

 
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Prev Previous Post   Next Post Next
Old 08-09-2013, 08:47 AM   #1
bluidkiti
Administrator
 
bluidkiti's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2013
Posts: 28,788
Default Slogans can help us simplify a complex program

Slogans Can Inspire Us All

There's a story sometimes told by members of NA. A mountain climber stumbles off the edge of a cliff. He manages to break his fall by grabbing a branch on a tree that overlooks the ravine. Hanging for his life, he calls up to heaven. "If there's anybody up there, help me--please!" A thunderous voice booms from the clouds: "Let go, and I will protect you." The man pauses for a moment to think. Finally he shouts, "Is there anyone else I can talk to?" For many of us, the prospect of a new year calls forth pious resolutions to change our behavior. NA offers a program based on the paradox of personal change--that transformation comes only when we let go of our futile efforts to control what we cannot control. Unlike the man hanging from the tree, we can learn to accept direction from outside ourselves. Over the years, NA members have shared many slogans to capture this philosophy of life in a nutshell. These pithy sayings offer direction for people in recovery from addiction--and anyone else who cares to live with serenity. Following are some examples to help you ring in the New Year.

"Accept life on life's terms." Many of us wish that the people and circumstances in our lives were different. This slogan reminds us to retreat from the world of our personal fantasies and deal with people and things as they are right now. Instead of trying to reform other people and remake the world in our own image, we can focus on changing our own behavior. Life is not changeable, but we are. A related slogan puts it this way: "If you pray for a Porsche and God sends you a jackass, ride it."

"Live and let live." Tolerance, a fundamental value in NA, means that we acknowledge our personal shortcomings while letting others have their own. We focus on our similarities with other people rather than resenting our differences.

"Progress, not perfection." Addicts can be grandiose, dope fiends,holding that they must be right at all times. We are all perfectionists who, failing perfection, have gone to the other extreme and settled for the dope and the blackout. A saner alternative is to make one simple change in our attitudes or behavior for today. Over time, small changes create major progress.

"This, too, shall pass." We suffer when we try to seek permanent fulfillment from things that are impermanent. People will pass into and out of our lives, and circumstances change constantly. But this fact also gives us strength. No feeling or experience, however painful, can last forever. Time passes and we move on to heal.

"Easy does it . . . but do it." People in early recovery sometimes feel frantic about everything they want to do. Unconsciously, they operate with the attitude that they must change everything about their lives--and change it now. This slogan reminds us to calm down and tackle one task at a time. We don't have to accomplish everything on our to-do list today.

"Easy does it" is a slogan in itself, yet NA members like to add "but do it." The latter phrase reminds us that we still have goals to meet and responsibilities to handle. Pacing ourselves is different than procrastinating.

"Let go and let God." NA is a spiritual, not religious, program that allows people to define their higher power in their own way. G.O.D., according to another slogan, stands for Good Orderly Direction--a source of guidance that goes beyond our self-centered opinions and selfish desires.

"Letting God" means accepting direction from that source, however we personally define it.

"Keep it simple." NA is sometimes called a simple program for complex people. This slogan reminds us to remember the basics: Don't use,no matter what happens Go to NA meetings. Do the next right thing. Our problems can be solved one step at a time, one day at a time. Getting high does not have to be an option,no matter what.
__________________
"No matter what you have done up to this moment, you get 24 brand-new hours to spend every single day." --Brian Tracy
AA gives us an opportunity to recreate ourselves, with God's help, one day at a time. --Rufus K.
When you get to the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on. --Franklin D. Roosevelt
We stay sober and clean together - one day at a time!
God says that each of us is worth loving.
bluidkiti is offline   Reply With Quote
The Following User Says Thank You to bluidkiti For Sharing:
Sponsored Links
Post New ThreadReply  

Bookmarks


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 
Thread Tools
Display Modes

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Forum Replies Last Post
This Is A We Program MajestyJo Newcomers Recovery Help and Support 6 04-30-2017 09:14 PM
Quotes, Sayings and Slogans bluidkiti Alcohol, Drugs and Other Addictions Recovery 37 09-02-2016 10:26 AM


Click here to make a Donation

All times are GMT -4. The time now is 04:51 PM.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.8
Copyright ©2000 - 2017, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.